However you feel when you find this is okay
Anger at me. Anger at your mother. Anger at yourselves. Numbness. Confusion. All of it makes sense. You don't have to sort it out in one sitting, and you don't have to reach back at all.
Read letter →Letters
Things I needed to say. Written for the day you're ready to read them.
This wasn't your fault
Plain words, so you don't carry this as a question. Whatever happened between the adults in your life was not about you. You did not cause it. There was nothing you could have done differently.
Read letter →You owe me nothing
If you reach out, I want you to know what you're walking into. No explanation required. No timeline. No version of yourself you need to be. The door is open and there are no conditions.
Read letter →The first thing I want you to know
Before anything else, before the family history and the photos and the videos - I want you to know that you are loved. Completely. Without condition.
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